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Kim Duthie - The Can't-Miss St. Kilda Story

By Matt Marsden on Sun, 06/03.2011

At just 17 years of age, Kim Duthie, more well known in the AFL world as the "St. Kilda schoolgirl" has spent the past year putting the players of the St. Kilda Football Club through pure turmoil. The club has been in the media all Summer and as the year continues to roll on, things are looking quite the same. On Sunday Night, Duthie showed her face on national TV on Channel 9's 60 Minutes, telling her side of the story and revealing everything that has occurred to do with both the club and AFL player manager Ricky Nixon.

Kim Duthie grew up in Frankston and as a young girl, she had no interest in AFL whatsoever. Her interest for the sport grew when St. Kilda players attended a clinic at her school, where she met the players and became infatuated. It was after a game in Sydney when Duthie met with the players and exchanged phone numbers. In doing so, Duthie misinformed them that she was 19 (as a 16 year old). She stated "I thought I had a better chance if I told them I was over 18."

From there, a connection with Saint player Sam Gilbert started up, a relationship in which they had consensual sex. However, Duthie claims that the two were never "dating" as such.

During their time together, Kim Duthie was trusted in Gilbert's home by herself, where she was able to easily access his computer and take personal photos of Gilbert, Nick Riewoldt, Zac Dawson and Nick Dal Santo. Duthie kept the images private until recently.

In May of 2010, Duthie first made claims that she was made pregnant by Gilbert, even going as far as posting images of herself supposedly pregnant on Twitter. As the Saints cut all ties with her, she released the infamous images of star Saints in provocative positions, sending AFL fans into shock.

Her motives were obvious when she stated: "I just want you guys to feel how I felt." If there was any doubt that Duthie's intention was revenge, this puts those lingering thoughts to rest.

Duthie later claimed that she lost the child at five and a half months before coming out to the public and admitting that it was all a lie.

When asked about the pregnancy scandal, Duthie struggled to think of an answer. "I really can't answer that. I honestly don't know why I said it. I was 16, a stupid immature little teenager. Attention is, you know, half the reason as well I guess."

"It (claiming Gilbert made her pregnant) was one of the biggest mistakes of my life."

Despite embarrassing top Saints Nick Riewoldt, Zac Dawson and Nick Dal Santo, Duthie says "I don't think I owe anyone an apology other than Sam (Gilbert)."

As the photo scandal was in full flight, Kim Duthie first came into contact with Gilbert's player manager, Ricky Nixon.

"I've never hated someone that much in my life," Duthie stated when asked about her first impression of Nixon. "I would clench my fists every time I heard his name."

Despite her loathing first impression, Duthie admits that her and Nixon became a couple.

"There was just this weird connection, just that we had hated each other so much.

"Then once we had sort of gotten to know each other, there was a connection between us."

Duthie permanently moved into the Causeway Hotel located in Melbourne in January of 2011, paid fully by the St. Kilda Football Club. This is where Ricky Nixon admits he first met her.

Their relationship started with flirty text messages at first, Duthie stating that she was excited by the "sneaking around". As time went on, Nixon would come over every second day.

The allegations continued as Duthie claimed that Nixon brought both cocaine and alcohol to her room, on top of them having numerous sexual encounters. Nixon accepts that he had inappropriate dealings by going to the hotel, but denies all other allegations.

On the 24th of January, Duthie and Nixon first slept together.

Although Ricky Nixon has refused requests for interviews, he is still contacting Kim. Nixon messaged Duthie, urging her to make a public statement. His words for her to say are as follows:

I want to put it on the record that there was no sex and there was no drug taking. When I told people I had been having sex with him, I never dreamt it would get the coverage it has. I then put together a video that gives the impression that we had sex and drugs.

"He said that the only way that we can be together is if I say this," Duthie said.

Although Nixon claimed that there was nothing going on between himself and Duthie, this text message sent to Duthie's phone confirms his intentions, reading:

We will need to play our relationship carefully but I will definitely give it a go, so long as we don't film or tape each other and you have amazing sex at least twice a day.

When Duthie began questioning whether this is what she wanted or not, Nixon sent this threatening message that read:

If you don't do it (state that the allegations were not true) then not only will there be no future for us, but you will have hundreds of people associated with me who will want revenge on you and that will be for the rest of your life.

After being questioned, chief executive officer of the AFL Andrew Demetriou claims that the players did not break any code of conduct.

Now that all is said and done, Duthie says that she now "wants out," and wants to let the world know "I'm not a slut."

Whatever happens from here, it is certain that what the AFL has witnessed over the past year will be etched in it's history for all the wrong reasons. Kim Duthie, who has all but thrown away all credibility, will struggle to work in her preferred job as a model and more importantly, Ricky Nixon has lost all respect that he has as an AFL player manager. If players know what's good for them, they will be taking their business elsewhere.

Click here to read Ricky Nixon's side of the story.

 
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Hang on!! A footballer has

Hang on!! A footballer has sex with a 17 yo? Is that it? She isn't 16.
That video footage in that hotel roomwe see is an OBVIOUS set up by her to entrap this guy. What a mole!! .....maybe she's a bit strapped for cash.

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The text messages from Nixon

The text messages from Nixon prove what his intentions were. It's obvious why he was in the film and why he was in the hotel room.

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In my opinion, this girl

In my opinion, this girl behaves like a narcissistic sociopath and doesn't deserve any sympathy from anyone.

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This is a girl that produced

This is a girl that produced fake pictures of herself pregnant to support a lie. It would only take her 2 minutes of possession of Nixons phone to set up a skype account that would on all accounts look like the text messages originated from his phone.

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No sympathy from my end, not

No sympathy from my end, not for the girl or others. Where I do believe she is a very troubled young lady and needs help, her manipulative behaviour is dangerous and totally ego centric. She's out of control, I am sure her parents are at their wits ends with her and she is too stubborn to take advice anyway. I have a child 2 yrs older than her and it makes me sad to see someone so wreckless and desperate for attention. As for the manager, he's a total loser. Don't blame drugs for your pedophilia creep.

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slut

slut

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Narcissistic sociopath is

Narcissistic sociopath is probably close to the money.
I'd be more inclined to believe histrionic personality disorder or dissocial personality disorder.
She's a compulsive or pathological liar, blames others, denies or justifies her own actions and has no concern for the rights of others.

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Also known as being a

Also known as being a teenager. ;)

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This troll is nothing more

This troll is nothing more than a parasite. She's a manipulative, deceitful, liar who it would seem is unable to feel empathy for the people who's lives she so deliberately & callously set out to ruin...She most definately fits the definition of a sociopath.

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i feel really sorry for

i feel really sorry for Duthie. i went to school with her for a few years and she was a really sweet, kind and passionate teenage girl. she was a great role model to her younger sister and she was a great athlete. why can't people just respect her privacy. all teenages make mistakes, even if it is a mistake as big as this. lies can hurt but if you have ever heard the saying 'stcks and stones may break my bones but names and stories can never hurt me' i thought the Saints were strong, prove it to us..

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I can't help but note that

I can't help but note that you write "why can't people just respect her privacy."

Did Duthie respect the privacy of FOUR St. Kilda players when she released private pictures of them?

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Her narcissism will ruin the

Her narcissism will ruin the lives of people around her for many years to come. She will never be capable of acknowledging what she has done to these players, for her to do that would possibly leave her feeling very bad about herself (and so she should). Few people seem capable of some pretty basic self reflection skills required to atone for past wrongs and Kim Duthie is a testament to the lacking requisites of what should be socially unacceptable, but is instead being supported by the media and biased women's rights groups looking to burn more bras and sully the AFL. Teenager or not she is responsible for her own actions and how that has affected so many people negatively, and in my opinion it's about time she got past her defense mechanisms and took a long hard look at herself!

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not a slut? that ship sailed

not a slut? that ship sailed a long time ago!

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If she was my daughter I

If she was my daughter I would have knocked her arse over head a few times and locked her in the house and everytime she whinge I would have flogged her.
She is unbelievable what a aaaaaaa unbelievable... There isn't a word that can discribe her...
So this is the sort of generation we have now all how to get famous..

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Ohhhh.... poor footballers.

Ohhhh.... poor footballers. Serves the w.....s right, even if she is screwed in the head. Over time, I've had to deal with a lot of AFL players and trust me, they're no "SAINTS".

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Kim Duthie took a lie

Kim Duthie took a lie detector test and passed.
Why has'nt Nixon done the same to clear his name,if he is innocent?????

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It was also brought to the

It was also brought to the AFL's attention that Duthie was allowed time to rest during the lie detector test, potentially altering the results.

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Kim Duthie Social misfit--

Kim Duthie
Social misfit-- would hate to be associated with her.
Lack of any moral integrity. How many guys has she slept with so far?????
Unattractive- and needs to spend money on her huge misshaped teeth.
Trashy behaviour and unfortunately it has not stopped.

My goodness what will ever happen when she gets her driver’s licence? Hot pants Kym will really be on fire then. She will be able to stalk Geelong players also. Such a seriously cheap girl!

Australian girls are better than this. I only hope the world knows she is truly one of a kind.

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In my opinion, all involved

In my opinion, all involved parties are in the wrong and theyre all just as bad.
Cant believe anyone would take a side in such a stupid scandal.

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